Changes that help
In consultations, we see how difficult it can be to say that food has become a source of fear. Sometimes a person asks for a new meal plan because talking about food feels easier than talking about what they are going through.
If this is happening to you, you can start by describing how you feel and what has changed in your day. You do not need to prove that your situation is serious enough. An assessment can address both your physical health and your relationship with food.
What is anorexia nervosa?
Anorexia nervosa can persistently affect eating and the way a person perceives their own body. Fear of gaining weight can take up much of the day [2]. It is not a choice [2], nor a matter of willpower or appearance.
It can also affect thinking, mood and how the body functions. Ongoing restriction can have serious medical consequences [2][3]. Therefore, if anorexia is suspected, it is advisable to seek a professional assessment rather than trying to resolve it at home.
Reading a guide cannot tell you whether someone has anorexia nervosa. Assessment brings together medical history, mental health and physical examination [1]. It also takes account of what the person and those around them have noticed. Diagnosis is the responsibility of the specialist team.
Why dieting can make the problem worse
A weight-loss diet adds rules when the relationship with food is already shaped by fear. It can make it harder to recognise that help is needed.
If the person is eating less and less, suggesting an even more restrictive plan diverts attention from medical assessment. British eating-disorder guidance includes restriction that worries the person or their family among the reasons to assess and refer [1]. The conversation should start with safety and access to an experienced team.
It is understandable that someone may look for a concrete solution for tomorrow. A standalone plan, without knowing how their physical and emotional health is, may not be enough.
Signs that go beyond eating very little
Concern about food and the body often shows up in daily life before it shows in appearance. Three very everyday signs may prompt consideration of a referral [1]: a way of restricting food that worries the person or those around them; changes in eating noticed by the family; and withdrawing from situations involving food.
In consultations, we hear things like finding it hard to eat with others, or meals beginning to take the place of other plans. This distress can coexist with physical problems while the person appears well [2]. Appearance does not indicate the level of risk.
None of these observations is a test. If you notice a worrying change, an open question such as “How have you been feeling?” may make it easier for the person to share what they are experiencing.
You do not have to wait until the problem is visible from the outside to ask for help.
Who can it affect, and why can it be hard to seek help?
Anorexia nervosa is not limited to adolescence or women. Eating disorders can affect people of different ages, sexes and body weights [2]. Stereotypes exclude those who do not fit the best-known image.
Shame and the difficulty of talking about food can delay seeking help [1]. It may also be hard to recognise that something ordinary has become a source of distress. Listening without reproach can open up that conversation.
If you are supporting someone, avoid negotiating about their appearance or asking them to prove how much they eat. You can offer to go with them to their GP. Family members or people close to them can take part in care when appropriate [1][2].
Our guide to body image discusses concerns about appearance without treating it as the only explanation.
What role does nutrition play, and what role does it not play?
Nutritional support is part of coordinated care. It helps address nutritional needs and difficulties with eating. British guidance recommends offering dietary advice only within a multidisciplinary team [1].

Nutrition alone does not treat the disorder. Nor is it enough to tell the person to eat more. Their physical situation must first be understood and a safe plan agreed with the team.
In consultations, we can support mealtimes and discuss questions about food, always in line with the shared goals of Psychology and Medicine. The pace and family involvement are decided according to each person’s age and situation [1].
A food list or general menu cannot meet all those needs. If there are signs of physical deterioration, medical assessment comes first [1][3].
How is anorexia nervosa treated?
Care begins with a specialist assessment of physical and mental health [1]. A GP can arrange referral to an eating-disorder service. If there is immediate risk, the route is emergency care [1][3].
The team coordinates psychological treatment, medical monitoring and nutritional support [1]. Psychiatry may also be involved, depending on the situation. Treatment is tailored to age, health and personal circumstances.
Physical monitoring matters even when the person does not report symptoms. Professionals assess vital signs and symptoms and arrange tests when needed [1][3]. Weight alone does not determine who needs care [1].
The initial aim is for the person to receive the care they need. The next steps are then agreed with them. For an overview and differences from other disorders, see the eating disorders guide.
What we see in consultations
A common question is whether it is possible to start with nutrition alone. When we suspect an eating disorder, we believe medical and psychological assessment should also be included [1]. This helps prevent a dietary plan from delaying the care that is needed.
Another idea is to wait until the problem is obvious to other people. That leaves people who are already suffering without help [2]. If eating, thinking about food or avoiding social situations is taking over your life, you can discuss it now.
Families also ask what to do if the person says they are fine and does not want to seek help. Share your concern without pressuring them, and consult primary care if they are not yet ready to ask for help [1]. If they are a minor, their family or caregivers can request an assessment and support them through the process.
How to seek help without waiting for a diagnosis
Make an appointment with your GP and explain what has changed in your eating, wellbeing and daily life. Ask for a physical assessment and referral to an eating-disorder service or specialist psychological care [1].
If the first conversation feels difficult, find someone you trust who can accompany you. Someone close to you can help describe what they have noticed while respecting your voice and decisions.
Seeking help early opens up options before distress takes up more space. The NIMH information for patients and families explains the support a specialist team may offer [2].
If you are thinking about harming yourself, the Spanish Ministry of Health’s 024 helpline is free, confidential and available at any time [4].
To ask for nutritional support coordinated with psychological and medical care, learn about the eating disorder dietitian service in Barcelona and online.
Your first step this week
Write down what has changed
Before your appointment, write three lines about what has changed in your meals, mood and plans. Having it in writing can help when talking is difficult.
When to see a doctor
When to seek medical care
An eating disorder is not a diet problem and cannot be fixed with a diet; in fact, dieting often makes it worse. Here, nutrition supports treatment led by specialist psychology, and often psychiatry and medicine as well. The priority is to receive a professional assessment.
If you notice any of these signs, follow the relevant urgent-care advice:
- If you are thinking about harming yourself or not wanting to live, seek help today: call 024 or contact a healthcare professional [1]. If there is immediate danger, call 112.
- If you faint or are short of breath, call 112. If your pulse feels very slow or you feel dizzy when standing up, seek medical assessment as soon as possible [3].
- If you have lost weight very quickly or have eaten almost nothing for several days, seek medical assessment as soon as possible [3].
- You vomit or take laxatives or diuretics, even occasionally [1].
- Your periods have stopped, your hair is falling out, you feel constantly cold or you bruise easily [3].
In an eating disorder, physical risk is not visible from the outside, and weight does not predict it. To start treatment, ask your GP for referral to an eating-disorder service or specialist psychological care.
You do not need to be very thin, meet any criteria or feel that it is “serious enough”. If food is taking over your life, that is already reason enough to ask for help.

If you do not know where to go, we help you find the right place
Tell us what is happening, since when and whether someone is treating you. If a nutrition consultation is the right next step, we book you an appointment; if you need something else, we help you find it. If there is an emergency, call 112 before writing to us.
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- National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. Eating disorders: recognition and treatment (NG69). NICE; 2017, actualización 2020. https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng69/chapter/recommendations.
- National Institute of Mental Health. Eating Disorders: What You Need to Know. NIMH; revisión 2024. NIH Publication No. 24-MH-4901. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/eating-disorders.
- Royal College of Psychiatrists. Medical Emergencies in Eating Disorders (MEED): Guidance on Recognition and Management (CR233). Royal College of Psychiatrists; 2022. https://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/improving-care/campaigning-for-better-mental-health-policy/college-reports/2022-college-reports/cr233.
- Ministerio de Sanidad. 024. Línea de atención a la conducta suicida. Ministerio de Sanidad; undated de publicación indicada, consulta de 2026. https://www.sanidad.gob.es/linea024/.
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